Meaningless friendship

A: weh, nape susah nk jadik kawan ko?
B: dats just my style
A: eh motif? ko hengat ko diva?
B: like duh!!! i'm super popular ok???!!~
A: wut eva.. btw, seryesly, nape susah to get along with u?
B: maksud ko?
A: nape org susah nk... hmmm.. be part of ur life circle..
B: owh, they need to pass several obstacles in order to be the one that i can trust...
A: KO nih seryes wat eva
B: laaa.. btol la.. ko nk aku jawab camne? haihh..
A: abes aku nih cmne?
B: ko rase?
A: aku MASUK kn? hehe
B: hehe

Dats always the thing to border us when it comes to friendship. sometimes, the one that we consider as our close friend, dont feel the same way as we do. And when the truth is revealed, it always causing pain which is hard to be cured and will permanently marking there for us to remember forever.We then tend to be very sceptical towards others, making them feel like a fool when the sign of friendship is shown by them. Are we suppose to be the one who get the blame?

In my opinion, we actually have the rights to do that. Looking from our perspective point of view, all of these are done so that the same bad incident wont happen again to us. We are just trying to be protective with our own feeling. It is something understandable since all of us know how important is our feeling to us. It is like the one which determines our life. The reason I said so is because, 'feeling' is how the human being reacted with their life. We always see people smile, cry, angry, afraid, etc. and these are all the examples on how the people feel for that moment of their life.

However, for those who are not in the same shoe as us, we are always being wrongly interpreted. The words selfish and ignorance always come into their mind and will lead to the bad perception towards us. This is due to the lack of interest shown by us in interacting and mingling around with them. The thought which always occur in their mind are we dont wanna be friend with them and certain standard need to be occupied before entering our circle of friends.

I have to agree with that but apart from that, bear in mind, it is only happen at the beginning of the friendship and the bond will be more intimate as the time flies. They just need to put a little bit more courage and determination in order to win our heart. Nevertheless, that is not always what is happen. The number of people succeeding until the finishing line can easily be counted by hand.

In this case, the other party is not the only one who feel unhappy but we ourselves would feel the same as well. In fact, sometimes we could be more emotional compared to them because the love as a friend has been built in our heart and we usually are those who fall into the sensitive type of group. At this point of time, the only thing to do if we really2 treasure the friendship is to go and confront the person by telling the truth. But, knowing us and the level of ego that we have, we will surely end up by looking at that person from far, enjoying life with the one which falls in his or her category of friends.........